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I’m not going to lie; I have never really been a spontaneous person. I need to plan and coordinate the particulars down to the last minute detail. Now, my husband on the other hand is Mr. Spontaneous. He’s a get up and go type of guy and will come home from work on a Friday evening and tell us to pack our bags we’re going on a road trip. I’ll be in a semi panic and anxious as to where we are going, where we are staying, will our budget allow us to take a non planned trip etc. So, you can imagine that in our marriage and relationship it’s somewhat the same. I know that we completely balance each other out because sometimes I become the voice of reason and other times, he’s breaking me out of my comfort zone and we have the best times creating lasting memories. I want the freedom to be spontaneous! I love to plan romantic date nights that may or may not always go as planned and it’s very important to me to maintain the intimacy in our marriage. I met my husband when I was fifteen in High School; I was pregnant by sixteen and a new mom at seventeen, just three weeks shy of my High School Graduation. I truly understand the quote: “The magic isn’t in getting married, it’s in staying married.”
I’ve literally grown up with my husband and through all the joy and pain we’re still standing and love each other unconditionally. This year marks twenty years of knowing one another. We have four children together and their ages are 18, 17, 14 and 6. You can imagine how hectic life can be with our work schedules, raising four children, other miscellaneous tasks and responsibilities and then making time for ourselves. We need time for ourselves individually and together. There is nothing more frustrating than planning a romantic evening out and then it gets scrapped because “it was a really long and stressful day at work” and your spouse doesn’t feel like going anywhere else after they get home OR they agree to try and go out but, fall asleep in the process. There have been attempted movie nights and cuddle time inside and sometimes it’s hard to keep our eyes open. My husband always looks so peaceful and I rarely want to disturb him. This is my life! I’ll let you know that sometimes it’s the other way around; I just don’t feel like leaving the house. I’m running errands all day, working in the field, being mommy taxi and when I get home I just want to relax and do NOTHING! This is not a great pattern because you lose yourselves in all the chaos and that’s not healthy. You have to be intentional about quality time and sexual intimacy with your spouse. Consistent date nights & intimate moments save marriages! Lol! #ImJustSaying
I challenged myself to be more spontaneous in certain areas of my life but definitely within my marriage where intimacy is concerned and can enhance the relationship with my husband. I recently discovered K-Y® Liquibeads at my local Walgreen’s and was intrigued because it’s a vaginal moisturizer that feels like your own moisture, allowing you the freedom to be spontaneous. Sometimes in our lives we have to get it in where we fit it in OR we all know about the “Quickie” and our bodies might not always be on the same page. I know that my mind goes 1000 miles a minute and if I’m not completely in the moment my natural lubrication is at a standstill or in slow motion until I am 100% in the moment. I guess I also have to take my age into consideration, it’s not like when I was younger and my vaginal lubrication flowed like Niagara Falls. There are so many different factors that can contribute to vaginal dryness. Discovering this product came at the perfect time because my husband has had a very hectic work schedule where we are barely seeing one another lately. He got time off for Thanksgiving and I “planned” to have fun date nights, ignite our passion and create many intimate moments while he was home and I was 80% successful! I can’t complain 80% out of 100% isn’t that bad and he’ll be on vacation again for the Christmas holiday so I can always try again for 100%! I strive for excellence and K-Y® Liquibeads is here to allow me to be spontaneous and enhance the moment.
Just to give you a little insight on K-Y® Liquibeads, it’s an over the counter vaginal moisturizer used to enhance your personal lubrication for comfort during intimate sexual activity. It comes with 6 individual ovule inserts and applicators. You can use it as needed every 3-4 days and NEVER more than one ovule within a 24 hour period. You can insert the ovule at least 30 minutes prior to your sexacapade to provide lubrication for intercourse. I love the ovule insert because it less messy than liquid lubricants for women. K-Y® Liquibeads are very easy to use, you separate the paper back on the ovule packaging by peeling back the corner, then remove an applicator from the plastic wrap, place the ovule into the applicator firmly so it doesn’t fall out, hold the applicator that has the ovule by the opposite end from where the ovule insert is located and gently insert the applicator into the vagina as far as it will go comfortably (This can be done standing up or lying down on your back). You will then with one hand holding that barrel into place, use your other hand to push the plunger all the way in to place the ovule as far back into the vagina as possible. You’ll remove both parts of the applicator from the vagina and dispose of the applicator. **Do NOT flush it in the toilet** If you’re a tampon user this process should be a breeze for you!
If you are pregnant or nursing, you should first consult your doctor before using K-Y® Liquibeads. There is also a coupon for $1.00 off any KY Product at coupons.com. Check out the KY website for more information on K-Y® Liquibeads. If you are trying to bring sexy and spontaneity back into your marriage, try K-Y® Liquibeads! Then come back and share your experience.